So today there is a lot obstacles that happened to me today so I wanted to talk about "Hate" that absolutely have something to do with me and you guys out there.
Most all of you could have some experiences like having some haters or rivals or enemy.
But I don't like calling haters as an enemies because I never look them that way. To me if someone really hate so much either they have their own purposes or not but seriously I don't like to join hate along with them. If they hate me, let them be. Don't hate them back.
Why? Because if you hate someone despite a single person, your life have no peace.
Why again? Because your life is full with hatred! Everyone must seek for a peace and happiness, don't let hatred hunt you and don't let your life disrupted.
So first of all I want to classify "haters" as a people that sometimes we can't even know who they are, where they are from, why they hate us, and of course what are their main purposes to hate us.
Apparently they hate us because they are jealous with what we had, sometimes they could also hate us because of no reasons and they could be hate us because of unnecessary things.
What I'm going to say is, let them hate you. Yes, they keep bothering our life with full of hatred but why we should care? You have to know that they actually bothering their own life! When people acting so judgmental it could help us to improve ourselves. Just like me, sometimes even my family being so judgmental with my own decision to decide what is the best for me but it help me to be a lot better than usual. Never hate them back.
If you hate them back it is such a waste your time. If you want to fight like a true fighter, then show them who you are. What is SPECIAL about you. You can expose yourself as a right person that have a nice story in it! Don't fight as a coward. I meant, don't blame yourself if they hate you, don't think about the past but start to make a plan for your own good future! If you want to think about past, then think wisely about it again and think "should I do the same mistakes again?". Think again about it. Saying all shit things to haters is just waste of time and it so immature and childish! When you fight them in a wrong way, I guess there is debut between you and them. And when you realize that what have they speak is true and makes you speechless, you will end up blocking them away from your life or just 'delete' and 'remove' them. Don't be like that. If what they said is really true, then take some points that can help you to enhance yourself to be better. Don't be afraid to change yourself to be THE BEST person. If you can't be the best, then be better.
This is my opinion, this is what I thought.
I don't mind if you guys have a lot of ideas how to overcome with situation like this. Mind to share it with me, I would be glad to read it!
I just curious about why people that can be so easily hate someone without a reasons or because of unnecessary things. And what is bothering me when people keep talking about my past. Seriously what past is past and we can't undo it. It's no use. As a true people we have to support each other to become a better HUMAN. We can be! We can do! We can trust! We can change!
If you really want to advice someone, please do it in a right way. There's no need to advice in a war and hating each other at the end of the conversation.
I wanted to say sorry if I've done any mistakes to people that close to me out there. I know who I am and I try to be a better person so everyone could be proud of me. It breaks my heart when there was a close friend of mine called me as a "betrayer". Yeah, I don't know how can possibly go wrong in that way. Please, if you expect me to change then please support me, not hating me and please stop talking about the past. Tolerate me in a friendly way!
I guess that's all for today. I'm sorry if what am I saying is wrong but this is my opinion. Also kind of my theories this is. :) I wanted to talk more but I think this is the end for this post.
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